Summary of this Episode


In this episode of the Generous Marriage Podcast we talk with Antonia Roybal – Mack, the founder and a managing partner of Roybal-Mack & Cordova, PC.

Antonia is a lawyer that prefers serving her clients needs on winning cases, and she helps people divorce compassionately.

Her motto is – break up hurts, divorce doesn’t have to.

We were truly inspired by her compassionate approach to divorce.

Here are some of the topics we covered in the interview:

  • How to separate without creating more pain
  • How to overcome impulses of revenge by noticing feelings, needs and reality
  • Hurt people hurt people, how to avoid more hurt
  • Separating hurts, divorcing doesn’t have to 

Bonus: Managing Conflict Worksheet

  When a client comes to Antonia Roybal-Mack, she helps them get out of the hurt feelings, notice their underlying needs, notice their partner’s needs, and work towards common goals.   You don’t need to divorce to be able to do it. Try this free worksheet we composed for you, inspired by the work Antonia does in her practice, to get clarity and resolve conflict.  


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Shachar Erez, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, 12 years married, father of two

Ziv Raviv, 16 years married, father of three